The following scenarios are what I observed.
Scenario1: During recess week, I went to states with one professor and four other students. The professor is a middle-aged lady. It is her first time to go to states and also first time to experience winter. She carried a big black office bag with her whenever we went out. Due to the unusual heavy snow in Washington DC, the whole city was covered with snow and it was very difficult for people to walk on the snow and tried not to fall. With her huge black bag, the professor was not able to balance herself very well. As a result, she fell twice in the first day. Obviously, she had great difficulty walking on the snow. Hence, I offered to carry her bag.
--“Professor, let me carry your bag.”
--“Oh, it’s okay. It is a very heavy bag. I can carry it myself.”
--“Please let me carry. It is not heavy for a boy.”
--“All right. Thanks so much, Lu.”
When we got back to our hotel, I handed the bag back to the professor. She was so grateful and she felt so sorry that I carried the heavy bag for such a long time.
Scenario2: The following scenario is very common in China.
A female professor was walking in the campus and a student is following her. The professor had a heavy bag in her hand. Clearly, she had just bought goods from the supermarket. When the professor was talking with the student, she changed frequently from one to the other hand to carry the bag. And she often stopped and put the bag in the middle of the student and herself.
--“Oh, professor, do you want me to carry the bag for you?” the student finally got the hint.
The professor handed the bag to the student directly and continued with her talk.
When they finished their talk, the student handed the bag over and the professor quickly said a “thanks” and then left.
Have you observed such scenarios before? What do you think is the reason behind? Please feel free to comment.